Wow, the lack of self-awareness in your post is stunning. Ask yourself why he thought of all the writing wisdom he could put in his signature, he chose to write about bras and panties. And, yes, if men suddenly realize they have to watch what they say around others the way others watch what they say around them, they will understandably walk on eggshells. That's not because other people have "pushed into" their spaces. It's because they are suddenly experiencing the world as others do. Boo hoo.